Ego-Control

Introduction

Here are a number of statements that may or may not apply to you. For each statement, select the response that best applies to you. Do not spend too long deliberating about your responses: if in doubt, choose the option that immediately seems most appropriate.

Disagree Strongly Disagree Moderately Disagree a Little Agree a Little Agree Moderately Agree Strongly
1 2 3 4 5 6
1 - Disagree Strongly
2 - Disagree Moderatley
3 - Disagree a Little
4 - Agree a Little
5 - Agree Moderately
6 - Agree Strongly
Statement 1 2 3 4 5 6
I am easily downed in an argument.
I would like to be a journalist.
I am steady and planful rather than unpredictable and impulsive.
My conduct is largely controlled by the customs of those about me.
I like to flirt.
On the whole, I am a cautious person.
It makes me uncomfortable to put on a stunt at a party even when others are doing the same sort of thing.
In a group of people I would not be embarrassed to be called on to start a discussion or give an opinion about something I know
I am against giving money to beggars.
I find it hard to make small talk when I meet new people.
Some of my family have habits that bother and annoy me very much.
I become impatient when I have to wait for something.
I do not let too many things get in the way of my work.
I finish one activity or project before starting another.
When I get bored, I like to stir up some excitement.
Some of my family have quick tempers.
I don’t like to start a project until I know exactly how to proceed.
At times, I am tempted to do or say something that others would think inappropriate.
I have often had to take orders from someone who did not know as much as I did.
I have sometimes stayed away from another person because I thought I might do or say something that I might regret afterwards.
At times I have very much wanted to leave home.
I do not always tell the truth.
I often get involved in things I later wish I could get out of.
I like to stop and think things over before I do them.
My way of doing things can be misunderstood or bother others.
It is unusual for me to express strong approval or disapproval of the actions of others.
I would like to wear expensive clothes.
I consider a matter from every viewpoint before I make a decision.
I often say and do things on the spur of the moment, without stopping to think.
People consider me a spontaneous, devil-may-care person.
I tend to buy things on impulse.
I have been known to do unusual things on a dare.
I have never done anything dangerous for the fun of it.
Sometimes I rather enjoy going against the rules and doing things I am not supposed to.
I can remember ‘‘playing sick’’ to get out of something.
At times I have worn myself out by undertaking too much.
I keep out of trouble at all costs.