Relationship Anxiety (ECR-R)


Here are a number of statements that may or may not apply to you. For each statement, select the response that best applies to you. Do not spend too long deliberating about your responses: if in doubt, choose the option that immediately seems most appropriate.

Disagree Strongly Disagree Moderately Disagree a Little Agree a Little Agree Moderately Agree Strongly
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1 - Disagree Strongly
2 - Disagree Moderatley
3 - Disagree a Little
4 - Agree a Little
5 - Agree Moderately
6 - Agree Strongly
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I often worry that my partner doesn't really love me.
I find that my partner(s) don't want to get as close as I would like.
I often wish that my partner's feelings for me were as strong as my feelings for him or her.
I worry a lot about my relationships.
Sometimes romantic partners change their feelings about me for no apparent reason.
I often worry that my partner will not want to stay with me.
I rarely worry about my partner leaving me.
I worry that I won't measure up to other people.
When my partner is out of sight, I worry that he or she might become interested in someone else.
My desire to be very close sometimes scares people away.
My romantic partner makes me doubt myself.
I worry that romantic partners won’t care about me as much as I care about them.
It makes me mad that I don't get the affection and support I need from my partner.
My partner only seems to notice me when I’m angry.
I do not often worry about being abandoned.
I'm afraid that once a romantic partner gets to know me, he or she won't like who I really am.
I'm afraid that I will lose my partner's love.
When I show my feelings for romantic partners, I'm afraid they will not feel the same about me.