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Parental Specialist

Introduction

Here are a number of statements that may or may not apply to you. For each statement, select the response that best applies to you. Do not spend too long deliberating about your responses: if in doubt, choose the option that immediately seems most appropriate.

Disagree Strongly Disagree Moderately Disagree a Little Agree a Little Agree Moderately Agree Strongly
1 2 3 4 5 6
1 - Disagree Strongly
2 - Disagree Moderatley
3 - Disagree a Little
4 - Agree a Little
5 - Agree Moderately
6 - Agree Strongly
Statement 1 2 3 4 5 6
I have plenty of friends whom I see for fun - but whose friendship is not that ‘deep’.
I prefer to save my money for the future than spend it now.
I have quite a large number of friends.
I see myself as reserved, quiet.
I talk to the family I grew up with quite a lot.
I love children.
I think I'll be a good parent.
I'm not that good at keeping in touch with grandparents, cousins, aunts and uncles.
I see myself as calm, emotionally stable.
I see myself as sympathetic, warm.
I'm not sure that I'll cope with parenting very well.
When I was growing up I didn't think about having a family and children all that much.
I find social awkwardness excruciating.
I find children a bit annoying.
I keep in good touch with family (close and distant relatives).
I probably interrupt people more than I should.
I try hard to make sure that everyone feels comfortable during conversations.
I invest a lot of time into making my home look nice.
I've always looked forward to having children.
I spend quite a lot of time with the family I grew up with.
I keep in contact with a lot of people.
I don't see the point in saving money for the future: I'd rather spend it now and enjoy it now.
I am willing to break social taboos during conversation.
I'm keen not to talk too much during conversations.
I see myself as dependable, self-disciplined.
I've always been really excited about the prospect of having children.
I've always been a bit daunted by the prospect of having children one day.
I spent a lot of my early life imagining having a family and children.
I see myself as disorganised, careless.
I only have a small number of close friends.
I live quite close to my parents.
I see myself as anxious, easily upset.
I don’t spend that much time with the family I grew up with.
I live quite far away from my parents.
I can't be bothered having friends just to have fun with; a true friend should be there in your hour of need.
I'm very close to my friends; I tend not to bother with loose acquaintances.
I would say that my political leanings are quite left wing
I try to be very polite during conversation.
I see myself as extraverted, enthusiastic.
I see myself as conventional, uncreative.
I see myself as critical, quarrelsome.
I don’t talk to the family I grew up with that often.
Sometimes I end up dominating the conversation.
I'm not that close to the family I grew up with.
I see my parents quite a lot.
I see myself as open to new experiences, complex.
Making my house homely is not one of my highest priorities.
If I want to say something but feel it might embarrass someone I tend to keep quiet.
I don't see my parents all that often.
I don't particularly gravitate towards left wing political ideals.
When I was growing up, I didn't think about having children very often.
I'm very (emotionally) close to the family I grew up with.
I don't keep in contact with that many people.