Intimacy Avoidance (ECR-R)
Introduction
Here are a number of statements that may or may not apply to you. For each statement, select the response that best applies to you. Do not spend too long deliberating about your responses: if in doubt, choose the option that immediately seems most appropriate.
| Disagree Strongly |
Disagree Moderately |
Disagree a Little |
Agree a Little |
Agree Moderately |
Agree Strongly |
| 1 |
2 |
3 |
4 |
5 |
6 |
| 1 |
- |
Disagree Strongly |
| 2 |
- |
Disagree Moderatley |
| 3 |
- |
Disagree a Little |
| 4 |
- |
Agree a Little |
| 5 |
- |
Agree Moderately |
| 6 |
- |
Agree Strongly |
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